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More information about family dynamics and patterns

This information is only a summary of hidden family dynamics and patterns. It gives you an idea how family dynamics can affect your daily life.

A few basic systemic (family) principles

Carrying somebody else's burden

The order of the family system

Roles within the family

Abortions, miscarriage,stillborn

Causes of death within the family

Diseasses and illnesses

Immigration

Forbidden love

Divorces

Religion

Sexual abuse

Religion

One of my former teachers once said ‘I am glad there is such a thing called religion, it keeps us counsellors busy’. Religion has a bigger influence on people than people realize Religious people being part of that community all their life don’t know differently and cannot differentiate between a life with or without religion, yet alone realize its influence on their lives. To get more insight into how people are generally influenced by religion it is helpful to get more background information on the various major religions.

For example, it makes a big difference if a person is from a strict religious family or from a family that doesn’t practice any religion at all, from a catholic background or a Muslim background. Not that one religion is better than the other; it is just that being part of a particular religious group has a certain effect on a person.

It is important to find out if anyone within your family history married someone from another religion and maybe even got excluded because of it, maybe even got ostracized and/or had a forbidden love from another religion. Religion can divide whole families and make them fall apart. This is likely to have had its affect on your family system for generations.  

writting down your family history

Emotional and physical abuse

Addictions to substances

Psychological problems within the family

Family secret(s)

War experiences

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